{"id":8706,"date":"2017-11-29T19:35:46","date_gmt":"2017-11-29T17:35:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sukofamily.org\/?p=8706"},"modified":"2020-03-23T09:51:06","modified_gmt":"2020-03-23T07:51:06","slug":"why-we-let-our-daughter-marry-a-guy-she-met-online-season-3-episode-11","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sukofamily.org\/why-we-let-our-daughter-marry-a-guy-she-met-online-season-3-episode-11\/","title":{"rendered":"Why We Let Our Daughter Marry a Guy She Met Online | Season 3 Episode 11"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When I found out my daughter was communicating with a guy from South American that she had met online I was concerned.<\/p>\n<p>In this episode of <a href=\"https:\/\/sukofamily.org\/podcast-2\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">&#8220;Now Is the Time&#8221;<\/a> Christina and I talk about why we allowed our daughter to continue with the relationship, get married, and move to South America.<\/p>\n<p>We also answer the questions below:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Why didn&#8217;t we make her get a college degree before marriage?<\/li>\n<li>Should young people be allowed to experience life before getting married?<\/li>\n<li>Aren&#8217;t you worried that your daughter is living so far away in a foreign country?<\/li>\n<li>Isn&#8217;t it better to marry someone from the same culture\/country?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>At the end we share with you some advice on how to prepare your children for marriage.<\/p>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/player.blubrry.com\/?media_url=https%3A%2F%2Fmedia.blubrry.com%2Fnowisthetime%2Fcontent.blubrry.com%2Fnowisthetime%2FNIST_S03_11.mp3&amp;modern=1&amp;podcast_link=https%3A%2F%2Fsukofamily.org%2Fwhy-we-let-our-daughter-marry-a-guy-she-met-online-season-3-episode-11%2F#mode-Light&border-000000&progress-000000\" scrolling=\"no\" width=\"100%\" height=\"165\" frameborder=\"0\" id=\"blubrryplayer-1\" class=\"blubrryplayer\" title=\"Blubrry Podcast Player\"><\/iframe><p class=\"powerpress_links powerpress_links_mp3\" style=\"margin-bottom: 1px !important;\">Podcast: <a href=\"https:\/\/media.blubrry.com\/nowisthetime\/content.blubrry.com\/nowisthetime\/NIST_S03_11.mp3\" class=\"powerpress_link_pinw\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Play in new window\" onclick=\"return powerpress_pinw('https:\/\/sukofamily.org\/?powerpress_pinw=8706-podcast');\" rel=\"nofollow\">Play in new window<\/a> | <a href=\"https:\/\/media.blubrry.com\/nowisthetime\/content.blubrry.com\/nowisthetime\/NIST_S03_11.mp3\" class=\"powerpress_link_d\" title=\"Download\" rel=\"nofollow\" download=\"NIST_S03_11.mp3\">Download<\/a> (Duration: 46:12 &#8212; 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