{"id":4253,"date":"2014-08-16T23:59:22","date_gmt":"2014-08-16T20:59:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sukofamily.org\/?p=4253"},"modified":"2020-02-17T11:44:07","modified_gmt":"2020-02-17T09:44:07","slug":"what-missionaries-really-do-on-furlough-the-surprising-truth","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sukofamily.org\/what-missionaries-really-do-on-furlough-the-surprising-truth\/","title":{"rendered":"What Missionaries Really Do on Furlough? The Surprising Truth!"},"content":{"rendered":"<div>&#8220;Wow, that&#8217;s a lot of vacation time!&#8221; exclaimed a lady I met while we were traveling through Chicago last month.<\/div>\n<p>It&#8217;s not the first time someone has commented on our &#8220;vacation&#8221; in the States. \u00a0While we live and serve most of the time in Ukraine, we spent the last ten months in the US.<\/p>\n<p>Some call this time in our home country &#8220;furlough&#8221; and others call it &#8220;home ministry.&#8221; Regardless of what it&#8217;s called it seems that there are a lot of misconceptions about what it is and exactly what missionaries are doing during this time.<\/p>\n<div>If you&#8217;ve never served as a missionary long-term, like at least four years, then you probably don&#8217;t have a good understanding of furlough. I&#8217;d like to help you with that and the best way I know how is to simply tell you about our ten months in the States.<\/div>\n<h4>Speaking<\/h4>\n<p>Let&#8217;s start with the most obvious. During our ten months in the US we do a lot of speaking! We focused on speaking with churches and groups that support our ministry but we also spoke in other settings.<\/p>\n<p>Our goal in speaking was to enlarge people&#8217;s vision of what God is doing in the world by showing them what God is doing in Ukraine. We also focused on calling people to boldly share Christ and serve the church no matter where they live.<\/p>\n<p>In all we had the opportunity to speak about 75 times during our furlough.<\/p>\n<div>We visited and spoke at 30 churches:<\/div>\n<div>\n<ul>\n<li>Bethany Bible, Kenmore, Wa<\/li>\n<li>Discovery Baptist, Gig Harbor, Wa<\/li>\n<li>Grace Baptist, Bellingham Wa<\/li>\n<li>Central Valley Christian Fellowship, Bremerton, Wa<\/li>\n<li>First Baptist Arlington, Wa<\/li>\n<li>Taylor Creek Church, Maple Valley, Wa<\/li>\n<li>Summit Park Bible Church, Anacortes, Wa<\/li>\n<li>GracePoint, Bremerton, Wa<\/li>\n<li>Prairie Baptist Fellowship, Yelm, Wa<\/li>\n<li>Living Hope, Port Orchard, Wa<\/li>\n<li>Lakeview Bible, Republic Wa<\/li>\n<li>First Baptist, Colville, Wa<\/li>\n<li>First Baptist, Notus, Id<\/li>\n<li>Meridian Baptist, Meridian Id<\/li>\n<li>Montana Ave Baptist, Caldwell, Id<\/li>\n<li>Roswell Baptist, Roswell, Id<\/li>\n<li>New Hope, Nampa, Id<\/li>\n<li>Whitney Baptist, Boise, Id<\/li>\n<li>First Baptist, Kuna, Id<\/li>\n<li>Thurston Community Baptist, Springfield, Or<\/li>\n<li>Hugo Community Church, Hugo, Or<\/li>\n<li>Grace Baptist, Redding, Ca<\/li>\n<li>Adin Community Church, Adin, Ca<\/li>\n<li>Salvation Church, Fredrickson, Wa<\/li>\n<li>Revival Church, Auburn, Wa<\/li>\n<li>Good News Church, Tacoma, Wa<\/li>\n<li>New Life Church, Woodbury, Mn<\/li>\n<li>Emmaus Baptist, Northfield, Mn<\/li>\n<li>First Ukrainian Baptist, Levittown, Pa<\/li>\n<li>First Baptist, Kirkland, Wa<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<p>In addition to churches we also spoke in the following settings:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Three Christian schools<\/li>\n<li>A Home-school co-op for about 100 students<\/li>\n<li>Radio interviews (one in <a href=\"http:\/\/engagingmissions.com\/em021-returning-ukraine-caleb-suko\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">English<\/a> and one in <a href=\"http:\/\/www.salvationbaptistchurch.com\/radio91\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Russian<\/a>)<\/li>\n<li>Couples seminar at a Russian church<\/li>\n<li>Youth seminar for about 800 Slavic young people<\/li>\n<li>Many home groups<\/li>\n<li>Men&#8217;s and women&#8217;s fellowships<\/li>\n<li>Awana clubs<\/li>\n<li>Youth groups<\/li>\n<li>And probably a bunch of other places that I&#8217;m forgetting right now!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h4>Travel<\/h4>\n<p>All those speaking opportunities mean a lot of travel. \u00a0We drove about 13,000 miles during our stay in the US. We went as far North as Bellingham, Wa, as far South as Los Angeles, Ca, as far West as Seabrook, Wa, and as far East as Belmar, New Jersey.<\/p>\n<p>The best part of all the traveling was the many homes we stayed in! We are so thankful to the dozens of families who graciously opened their homes up to our not so small family! We spent many hours conversing with those who hosted us and building relationships. We made new friends and reconnected with old friends!<\/p>\n<p>Cities we stayed at least one night in:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Bellingham, Wa<\/li>\n<li>Republic, Wa<\/li>\n<li>Seabrook, Wa<\/li>\n<li>Colville, Wa<\/li>\n<li>Kennewick, Wa<\/li>\n<li>Notus, Id<\/li>\n<li>Adin, Ca<\/li>\n<li>Bend, Or<\/li>\n<li>San Francisco, Ca<\/li>\n<li>Redding, Ca<\/li>\n<li>Los Angeles, Ca<\/li>\n<li>Bandon, Or<\/li>\n<li>Grants Pass, Or<\/li>\n<li>Springfield, Or<\/li>\n<li>Lewiston, Id<\/li>\n<li>Victor, Mt<\/li>\n<li>Cody, Wy<\/li>\n<li>Sturgis, Sd<\/li>\n<li>St Paul, Mn<\/li>\n<li>Wauseon, Oh<\/li>\n<li>Harrisburg, Pa<\/li>\n<li>Philadelphia, Pa<\/li>\n<li>Washington DC<\/li>\n<li>Madison, Wi<\/li>\n<li>Northfield, Mn<\/li>\n<li>Butte, Mt<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h4>Medical<\/h4>\n<p>While we are in Ukraine we often put off major medical procedures that need to be done. Thus, one of the first things on our list to do when we get to the US is to see the doctor. In all we managed to get six surgeries done as well as routine check-ups and dental work.<\/p>\n<h4>Family<\/h4>\n<p>Family time is also important. Thankfully we got to spend some quality time with my side of the family, (Christina&#8217;s family all live in Ukraine). In January we got away for a few days to the Washington coast with all but one of the siblings. This summer we spent several days with all 19 of my parents&#8217; grand-kids and all seven of my siblings plus their spouses!<\/p>\n<h4>Personal Enrichment<\/h4>\n<p>It&#8217;s impossible to effectively minister if you&#8217;re not growing in your faith and ministry skill personally, thus personal enrichment is an important aspect of furlough. I had the privileged of attending four events that helped me to grow!<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>John MacArthur&#8217;s Shepherd&#8217;s Conference,<\/li>\n<li>Heart, Mind Soul seminar on sharing the gospel with Muslims<\/li>\n<li>Northern California Baptist fellowship conference<\/li>\n<li>Missionary Enrichment Conference<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h4>Writing<\/h4>\n<p>While in the States I continued with the discipline of writing as both a way for me to continually grow and as a way to minister to my readers.<\/p>\n<p>During our furlough I wrote 77 posts on our blog and one book.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>I wrote about topics that are related to missions and the church like, <a href=\"https:\/\/sukofamily.org\/14-how-to-become-a-missionary-and-listener-questions-podcast\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">&#8220;How to Become a Missionary&#8221;<\/a> or <a href=\"https:\/\/sukofamily.org\/is-missions-hurting-your-church\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">&#8220;Is Missions Hurting Your Church?&#8221;<\/a><\/li>\n<li>I also wrote on more individual topics like <a href=\"https:\/\/sukofamily.org\/why-american-christians-tend-to-be-fat-and-unhealthy\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">&#8220;Why American Christians Are Fat and Unhealthy&#8221;<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/sukofamily.org\/why-you-should-stop-asking-jesus-into-your-heart\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">&#8220;Why You Should Stop Asking Jesus into Your Heart.&#8221;<\/a><\/li>\n<li>I wrote about the situation in Ukraine with posts like, <a href=\"https:\/\/sukofamily.org\/why-i-love-vladimir-putin\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">&#8220;Why I Love Vladimir Putin&#8221;<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/sukofamily.org\/why-you-should-stop-asking-jesus-into-your-heart\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">&#8220;Why You Should Care About What&#8217;s Going on in Ukraine.<\/a>&#8220;<\/li>\n<li>Finally, I wrote about issues in the American Church like <a href=\"https:\/\/sukofamily.org\/32-the-problem-with-worship-experiences\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">&#8220;The Problem with Worship Experiences&#8221;<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/sukofamily.org\/when-will-persecution-come-to-american-churches\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">&#8220;When Will Persecution Come to American Churches.&#8221;<\/a><\/li>\n<li>I also wrote a book called <a href=\"https:\/\/sukofamily.org\/new-book\/whatif\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">What If&#8230; How to Kill Worry and Anxiety Before They Kill you!<\/a> If you haven&#8217;t purchased it yet, you&#8217;d better get over to <a href=\"http:\/\/goo.gl\/LiqZ1u\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Amazon<\/a> and pick up a copy!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h4>That&#8217;s It!<\/h4>\n<p>So that&#8217;s about it! I&#8217;m sure there&#8217;s some things I missed but really I&#8217;m just writing this so that you can have a better idea of what missionaries do on furlough. It&#8217;s not really a vacation time!<\/p>\n<h4>Question: If you&#8217;re a missionary, what could you add the list of things missionaries do on furlough. If you&#8217;re not a missionary, what surprised you most in the lists above?<\/h4>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;Wow, that&#8217;s a lot of vacation time!&#8221; exclaimed a lady I met while we were traveling through Chicago last month.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not the first time someone has commented on our &#8220;vacation&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4259,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[8],"tags":[64],"class_list":["post-4253","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-ministry","tag-missions"],"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/sukofamily.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/DSC00070.jpg","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p3izZc-16B","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":4982,"url":"https:\/\/sukofamily.org\/47-confessions-of-a-missionary-wife-surviving-furlough-with-children\/","url_meta":{"origin":4253,"position":0},"title":"#47 Confessions of a Missionary Wife -Surviving Furlough with Children","author":"Caleb Suko","date":"January 31, 2015","format":false,"excerpt":"Let's get one thing straight, if you're a missionary and you have kids, then furlough is anything but a vacation! 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