{"id":13656,"date":"2021-10-06T21:58:21","date_gmt":"2021-10-06T18:58:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sukofamily.org\/?p=13656"},"modified":"2021-10-06T22:33:48","modified_gmt":"2021-10-06T19:33:48","slug":"counseling-women-and-now-vs-long-term-parenting","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sukofamily.org\/counseling-women-and-now-vs-long-term-parenting\/","title":{"rendered":"Counseling Women and Now vs Long-term Parenting"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Today Christina joins me on the podcast to talk about her ministry of counseling both unbelieving and believing. Also we talk about the difference between parenting for the now and parenting for the long-term.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>*Quick links<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"yt-simple-endpoint style-scope yt-formatted-string\" dir=\"auto\" spellcheck=\"false\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=58zx_d3WN4c&amp;t=93s\">1:33<\/a><span class=\"style-scope yt-formatted-string\" dir=\"auto\"> Background on Christina&#8217;s counseling ministry <\/span><\/p>\n<p><a class=\"yt-simple-endpoint style-scope yt-formatted-string\" dir=\"auto\" spellcheck=\"false\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=58zx_d3WN4c&amp;t=255s\">4:15<\/a><span class=\"style-scope yt-formatted-string\" dir=\"auto\"> Why is it important to meet in person? <\/span><\/p>\n<p><a class=\"yt-simple-endpoint style-scope yt-formatted-string\" dir=\"auto\" spellcheck=\"false\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=58zx_d3WN4c&amp;t=368s\">6:08<\/a><span class=\"style-scope yt-formatted-string\" dir=\"auto\"> How do you counsel someone whose homelife is far from ideal? <\/span><\/p>\n<p><a class=\"yt-simple-endpoint style-scope yt-formatted-string\" dir=\"auto\" spellcheck=\"false\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=58zx_d3WN4c&amp;t=470s\">7:50<\/a><span class=\"style-scope yt-formatted-string\" dir=\"auto\"> What is the biggest problem unbelievers have with the gospel? <\/span><\/p>\n<p><a class=\"yt-simple-endpoint style-scope yt-formatted-string\" dir=\"auto\" spellcheck=\"false\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=58zx_d3WN4c&amp;t=742s\">12:22<\/a><span class=\"style-scope yt-formatted-string\" dir=\"auto\"> Marriage is hard work <\/span><\/p>\n<p><a class=\"yt-simple-endpoint style-scope yt-formatted-string\" dir=\"auto\" spellcheck=\"false\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=58zx_d3WN4c&amp;t=985s\">16:25<\/a><span class=\"style-scope yt-formatted-string\" dir=\"auto\"> Have fun while you&#8217;re young <\/span><\/p>\n<p><a class=\"yt-simple-endpoint style-scope yt-formatted-string\" dir=\"auto\" spellcheck=\"false\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=58zx_d3WN4c&amp;t=1224s\">20:24<\/a><span class=\"style-scope yt-formatted-string\" dir=\"auto\"> What is the difference between parenting for now and parenting for long-term? 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