{"id":1229,"date":"2012-09-08T00:34:56","date_gmt":"2012-09-07T21:34:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sukofamily.org\/?p=1229"},"modified":"2012-09-08T11:10:52","modified_gmt":"2012-09-08T08:10:52","slug":"three-of-the-greatest-lessons-my-parents-taught-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sukofamily.org\/three-of-the-greatest-lessons-my-parents-taught-me\/","title":{"rendered":"The 3 Greatest Lessons My Parents Taught Me"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This evening I received the following email from my mom:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><em>Last week in Sunday School Graham gave a good challenge for us&#8211;a question to ask our grown kids.\u00a0 What were the 3 most important things I taught you when you were growing up?\u00a0 I&#8217;ll look forward to hearing what you have to say&#8211;even though it is a bit scary\u00a0<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Well it got me thinking right away and it didn&#8217;t take me long to come up with my answers. \u00a0Looking back on my formative years it struck me that the most important things my parents taught me were not necessarily things they told me but those that I learned from observing their lives.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/69.89.31.195\/~sukofami\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/DSC05766-001.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"1231\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/sukofamily.org\/three-of-the-greatest-lessons-my-parents-taught-me\/sony-dsc-76\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/sukofamily.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/DSC05766-001.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"640,359\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;4.5&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;Picasa&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;NEX-3&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1326343380&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;42&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;200&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.00625&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;SONY DSC&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"My parents, Mark and Nancy Suko\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/sukofamily.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/DSC05766-001.jpg\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-1231\" title=\"My parents, Mark and Nancy Suko\" src=\"http:\/\/69.89.31.195\/~sukofami\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/DSC05766-001.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"640\" height=\"359\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sukofamily.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/DSC05766-001.jpg 640w, https:\/\/sukofamily.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/DSC05766-001-300x168.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Faithfulness<\/strong><br \/>\nIf it&#8217;s important my parents don&#8217;t give up on it and that&#8217;s unusual in today&#8217;s world!\u00a0They never gave up on \u00a0the 8 us kids, even though there were countless times when we gave them plenty of reason to. They never gave up on each other and instead continually worked on the perfection of their marriage. They never gave up on the church despite having to deal with setbacks that would have driven others away.<\/p>\n<p>Here is a little list of ways my parents have taught me faithfulness:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Pastoring one church and preaching every Sunday for over 30 years!<\/li>\n<li>Raising 8 kids successfully<\/li>\n<li>Maintaining a christian marriage for over 40 years<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div><strong>Patience<\/strong><\/div>\n<div>Without a doubt my parents are the most patient people I know. \u00a0In fact I have often thought that they were too patient, however, the older I get the more I question that assumption. \u00a0I remember well how patient my mom was when traveling salesmen came by. \u00a0She always made it clear that she wasn&#8217;t interested in buying what ever they were selling, yet she was patient and would never kick them out. \u00a0As any good salesman should, he would continue in hopes that she would buy. \u00a0On several occasions I remember that it was several hours before the poor guy would actually leave!<\/div>\n<p>My parents also showed tremendous patience towards the church. It wasn&#8217;t unusually for people to stop by unannounced at inconvenient times. \u00a0My mom would always set another plate on the table and invited them in without a second thought. \u00a0It was so natural that I didn&#8217;t even realize how difficult that actually is until I got a family of my own!<\/p>\n<p>I also observed my dad&#8217;s patience in regards to ministry. \u00a0Whenever there was a hot topic at the board meeting it seemed like he would be unusually quiet then I realized he was just waiting for everyone to say their piece before he weighed in. \u00a0He would never inject his opinion or talk over someone else. \u00a0The result was that when he did say something people listened.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Family<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><\/strong>At times growing up I heard pastor&#8217;s kids talk about how terrible it was growing up in a pastor&#8217;s family and how they regretted\u00a0their father was always busy with the ministry and never spent time with them. \u00a0That was a foreign concept to me! \u00a0I know that both my parents are tremendously hard workers, yet somehow they managed to keep a balance. \u00a0I<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-660 alignleft\" title=\"Caleb's early days\" src=\"http:\/\/69.89.31.195\/~sukofami\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/12\/calebgrowingup-273x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"273\" height=\"300\" \/><\/p>\n<p>never felt that I didn&#8217;t get enough time with my dad, on the contrary, he always seemed to have time for us!<\/p>\n<p>The emphasis on family had a great impact on me and continues to shape the way I live my life even today!<br \/>\nOf course there are many more lessons that my parents taught me but these three came to my mind right away.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What about you? What are the 3 greatest lessons your parents taught you?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Let me know in the comments below.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This evening I received the following email from my mom:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><em>Last week in Sunday School Graham gave a good challenge for us&#8211;a question to ask our grown kids.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1231,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[36],"tags":[204,382,203,187,205],"class_list":["post-1229","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-family","tag-faithfulness","tag-family","tag-life-lessons","tag-parents","tag-patience"],"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/sukofamily.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/DSC05766-001.jpg","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p3izZc-jP","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":9164,"url":"https:\/\/sukofamily.org\/the-legacy-of-billy-graham\/","url_meta":{"origin":1229,"position":0},"title":"The Legacy of Billy Graham","author":"Caleb Suko","date":"February 21, 2018","format":false,"excerpt":"Today at age 99 Billy Graham passed into the presence of his Savior. 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